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[Nov. 7th, 2006|07:59 pm] |
mike called !
he had a nice trip in italy and germany.
verona was lovely. tho he was there with hetro friends and the woman started bleeding so they spent sun trying to find tampons.
trying to find tampons in italy on a sun. it sounds like a reality tv show.
it took them HOURS. they finally got some about midnight at an emergency pharm.
munich was a tad tedious it seems with some internet date that drank alot and koln was oddly empty.
dad is ok. the prostate cancer is not in remission but not getting worse. just being stable and holding. everyone knows it's just a matter of time at this point......
1 kidney stopped but it MAY restart.
marius, his mom and rolf all have seperate houses now. (all with no income of course. SO VERY dutch.)
both m&r are seeing other guys tho are still married.
JUST as i put the phone down it rang again. it was lynn. i was in fact JUST thinking of calling him. we had talked of getting together sun.
i went over to his place and had a FAB afternoon from 2-8.
long HOT sex then post cum cuddle&chitchat. afterwards we did dinner. 1st we were going to blue. then it turned out he's not been to thai express yet but in the end we did firewood.
we both like that kind of food and like the amount of food one gets for the $.
turns out he really likes to cook but just does not do it for himself alone and now his kitchen is too small and TOO jammed full of stuff to use well.
he's like eric in some ways. he was the fag son who cooked in a large hetro family with no birth control.
he's a meat&potatos kind of guy.
his FAV dinner for himself is meatloaf.
nothing say's husband material quite like that does it ?
he was partners with a miner in wyoming at one point and all the other miners thought his man had better lunches than thier wives fixed.
of course he did.
i LOVE being gay.
at 1 point during sex his stamina was fading so i just changed pace and position and it worked out FINE.
theres a reason i prefer to sleep with older poz men. they understand my health issues because they have them too.
after dinner we had gelato at sweet inspiratations then i walked him home.
it was only 8pm but he was starting to fade. the fog was causing his shingle scars to act up.
since it was so early and they live near each other i called neal but he was eleswhere with friends so i just got some soda at safeway and went home.
myra called so we chatted about white trash sex stories for awhile.
mon eric and i just did MAJOR trips to safeway, walgreen's and my pharm.
starting 1/01/07 i'll no longer be able to use my pharm due to some reason with my insurence company. a shame since they're VERY good. all the guys are gay and VERY helpfull. i'm not sure where i'll switch to yet. ( update below)
later i went to ameoba, i chatted with tom a bit, and had to swing by the pharm again cause i was out of hiv meds so needed them that night.
i went to a sexparty at blowbuddies.
it was NOWHERE near as fun as the last time they had a mon party.
to say it was boring is making it sound more interesting than it was for the most part.
a LITE turnout and those who did show up seemed unsure of why they were there. to be honest i was not sure why they were there either.
it was how i feared sexparties would be when i 1st came back to sf.
the only good things were that it was close to the apt and only $6.
only 1 guy seemed to be having any fun. when he was mostly naked his full body tatt seemed familer.
when he was finally free enough for me to say hi it turned out it was steve so we spent the rest of the party together.
he worked my tits and i worked his cock.
we both had screaming orgasisms.
he starts with mildly hard play and works his way up.
it turned into a VERY fun end to an otherwise dull evening.
it was the 1st time in AGES i felt the need to put antibio gel on my tits after i showered later to help them heal.
tues eric did the foodbank for the 1st time in 4 weeks then we saw marie ann.
we both liked it.
beautifly filmed.
breathtakingly lovely clothes. ( m.a. was also the carrie bradshaw of her day shoewise.)
i thought the mix of 18th c. looks with 80's music worked well actually. after all, 1/2 the 80's mtv videos used the same clothes and look.
of course it was sad overall.
m.a. was too young, flighty and out of place.
louis was a young geek unsuited to rule and knew it.
niether were fast learners and both were overwhelmed.
in my heart i suspect i'd have had a firmer grasp, perhaps even a firmer hand, on court politics than the children.
after her youngest baby passed away it was all downhill.
in the end revolution or no revolution i was NEVER amused they killed the other 2 kids too.
marianne faithfull as maria theresa was FAB. i also enjoyed asia argento as du berry.
i'd do loius. he was cute, if young, in that big nosed nebbish kind of way.
lynn and i chatted. he was THINKING of us going to the eagle for halloween together but wanted to see how his tummy was after dinner, he did errands and was eating at blue after work, and to take a 'disco nap'. i know lynn's naps by now. if he lays down.....good night.
he tends to be a 10pm to bed kind of guy anyway.
i certainly understand the tummy thing too.
i would have been surprised if he really called later.
eric and i skipped the castro street mess and just stayed in.
( just as well it turns out i guess. ah, straights. you just have to dispise them completely.)
ncsi's halloween show was very good and much better than csi miami in terms of believability.
tho i do find the child in danger storyline is being overused by everyone in general.
i did do a stroll through soma later.
the eagle actually did decorations and food. they had good cake.
it had folks in tho not truely crowded. it seemed the most fun but i knew no one.
powerhouse was charging $5 so i skipped it.
lonestar had some folks in. it just seemed a nice, normal low key tues.
the stud was a ZOO. a line down the street and the ally was boppy. ( social boppy not sexual boppy.)
some cuties but all children of course.
the hole had some nice craved pumkins. i said hi to rob and don.
NOT busy. the only interesting couple looked rather together. tho they did have good pirate drag on.
overall the only costume of note i saw was a fat girl walking on the street doing a well done jellyfish. tho to be honest i THINK i've seen it before.
soma was really rather empty and boring.
i went home and finished a short story collection.
the nieghbor's music went till late tho in fairness it was not AS bad as i feared it would be given it was halloween.
slums are noisy !
in the end one MAJOR reason i'll not be able to deal with the 6th st apt long term, nl or no nl, will be the almost non stop noise.
my bedroom should NOT vibrate unless i'm having hot sex.
i work the next week everyday by myself which should be interesting.
neal wanted to hookup tonite but there's a naked party at blowbuddies i want to try to do after work.
my cousin leelee called this morning. aunt ruth fell off the porch and broke her neck. she's doing ok all in all but will be in a brace for a few months. she's staying at home tho.
leelee and her mom patsy are in helping.
i had a nice chat with leelee who i've not talked with in EONS. i caught up on what the family's up to. i said hi to aunt ruth and patsy too.
i talked with rene. it had been ok but a storm blew in so halloween night was wet and rainy. he was watching the movie halloween on tv.
of course he has a movie to go to next wed night. my 1st night there. that's SO rene-like.
my kidneys are starting to hurt a bit. i think it's the sleeping pills. that's common with me. tho of course it COUlD be the new hiv meds.
eric went to a friend's b-day party last night and i had my orgy to go to.
we forgot to tape most of c.m since we were both getting ready for parties. it was just as well really. they were doing a show clearly based on SAW which is not my cup of tea. tho i did catch the end of it so know who lived and who the killer was.
we did remember in time to tape csi ny luckly. as useual it was good. well done but not wow.
the naked party was well attended.
some hotties were in. there were a fair amount of sexy guys running around tho mostly just normal naked middle aged men of course.
it was an ok time and better than staying home by a long shot but not really a FAB nite overall.
i played with a few guys but had no real FAB encounters.
it was a big night for group scenes.
both michael and steve were there so i said hi.
i did jeremy again just cause he was there.
it's getting to be a habit. he's sweet, easy to do and cute enough tho not very popular with the boys it seems. a shame. he's got a cute face and nice enough white boy body but i think there was a mild birth defect or somesuch. i've not asked. he has only 1 ball and his sack is piebald. he has odd body posture. it's somewhat subtle and hard to desribe. one notices it if one looks at him but it does not SCREAM at you. he holds his arms in at a slightly odd angle. i think he may have a form of whatever it was that a fb from EONS ago had. of course the uber geek personality does help either with the boys.
there was a japp. GOD who CLEARLY adored being adored by hairy, stocky, middle aged white guys. he was surprisingly sweet too.
a fair number of hot asians and latins were bopping through.
i finally told 1 older white guy who i know has been checking me out for the last few orgies that i thought he was actually kind of sexy but i'm not that into getting a bj. i had thought about playing with him but that's the thing he likes to do.
as is normal it died down early.
eric had a fun time at his friend's b-day party. he had fun sex in a hot tub.
this morning the music started about 8:30am. tho it was different than the useual. i think new folks may have moved it upstairs.
then about 9am the workmen next door started......
luckly i had planned on getting up early, tho not THAT early, to go to the pharm before work.
it was raining of course.
i got less meds than i expected so may have to go again before i fly out. peter was working a sexy new look and told me not to worry about the insurence letter. it had been a miscomuunication between the insurence company and the pharm.
robbie sent me a really nice break up letter.
mind you, we were't actually dating as such. ah well, he was hot and nice.
( it's one of the interesting byproducts of liking emotional distant men. officaly having a breakup with ever having officaly dated. i COULD name names but...)
neal is busy tonight but we may try to hookup fri. it's funny how hard it can be working out a sex timetable.
turns out lynn got food poisoning so is not feeling well at all. it'll be a few days before we hookup again.
he just slept halloween night.
it seems the new upstairs neighbor likes to play VERY loud music to get up to and while in the shower. it seems to be a 8:30am-9:45am thing.
not sure how this will play out on weekends.
not that it truely matters given the workmen tend to start pounding about 9am.
so, no sleep day or night now at the apt.
last night since going to bed early is not an option i went to blowbuddies.
it was somewhat boppy.
i played with 1 of the MOST sexy looking guys i've done in ages. what the ideal of a bear is SUPPOSE to be instead of the obese reality it tends to be. short, stocky but SEXY with it not fat, VERY VERY hairy with DARK hair and short beard/goatee.
OH SO FINE and nice too.
no great skill but hey....
i played with an older geek who was not all that in looks really. tho i liked his wearing glasses. it's why i let him do me. he gave a fab rim job.
that turned into a 3way with a guy who was very sexy in that blue collar truckstop bathroom porn kind of way. i sucked him while the geek ate me out.
then the geek sucked him off.
there was a cute nice guy who REALLY wanted me but his thing was sucking me off which does not work with me of course. i just gave him a backrub instead. he REALLY liked my legs oddly which was cool but they have not really been thier best since my 1st aids attack in nyc.
i had a very fun time with a guy named fred. he was a little bit faerie, a little bit bear. ( maybe that could be a comeback song for donny & marie ?)
fab cock, sensitive tits, a hot hairy asshole. it was a good time.
there was another guy i played with briefly with very soft skin. nice tho a bottom really.
i briefly did a scene with 2 guys. both hot in that generic hot gay way. 1 was much hotter than the other with a shaved head, tall, broad shoulders, gymtoned body and of course a REALLY REALLY tiny dick.
i'm under the impression he's not happy about it but has learned to deal with it.
i actually found the other far less gymtoned 1 sexier. it had nothing to do with the dick size. i just liked his body better.
i sat down and did girlfriend gossip with micheal.
overall a nice nite tho not stunning.
csi vagas was really good tho VERY downbeat. yet again with the kids in danger theme. i'm sensing a trend.
i still find it interesting that hetros are made by nature itself to be mindless breeders yet should never be allowed to actually raise children.
it does make one wonder if nature did not evolve gays to care for children. it would help the spieces as a whole to make it.
it would make so much sense. we are not mindless breeders ourselves but breed by choice so we WANT the child.
we are human as are hetros, strange as it may seem that they are, but clearly seperate branchs of the same tree.
derk jan wrote me. he's in bangkok for a week then taiwan the next week.
i think he'll be back in nl while i'm still there.
neal and i were going to hookup tonite but i now expect him to flake. oh well, not tragic really.
eric is with tish at a friend's of hers. she just got back from france. |
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